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🧸 Preschool

What children do, and when β€” roughly

A guide to what children typically do between birth and six, how each of the recognised early-years systems looks at a child, and how to assess a preschooler honestly β€” by watching and recording, not by testing.

0–6 monthsThe first half year6–12 monthsSitting, moving, meaning12–24 monthsWalking and words2–3 yearsSentences and self3–4 yearsPlaying with others4–5 yearsRules, reasons and stories5–6 yearsReady for formal learning

Children develop at genuinely different rates, and the ages below are typical ranges, not deadlines. A child who reaches something three months late is usually just a child. This page is a guide for parents and teachers; it is not a diagnostic tool and cannot replace a paediatrician, an audiologist or a developmental specialist.

12–24 months Β· Walking and words

Two explosions at once: walking, and vocabulary. By two, most children have fifty words or more and are putting two together.

Body and movement

  • Walks alone (most by 15 months, nearly all by 18)
  • Walks up steps holding a hand (about 18–24 months)
  • Runs, stiffly at first (about 18 months)
  • Scribbles with a crayon held in the fist
  • Stacks three or four blocks (about 18 months)
  • Kicks a ball forwards (about 24 months)

Communication

  • Uses several single words (about 15 months)
  • Follows a one-step instruction without a gesture
  • Points to a named body part (about 18 months)
  • Around 50 words by 24 months
  • Puts two words together: 'more milk' (about 24 months)
  • Names familiar things in a picture book

Thinking and looking

  • Uses an object for its purpose β€” a spoon, a comb
  • Pretends: feeds a doll, puts a phone to the ear
  • Finds a thing hidden under two covers
  • Sorts by shape into a simple posting toy
  • Copies what adults do around the house

Feeling and belonging

  • Shows things to adults to share interest
  • Plays alongside other children rather than with them
  • Has strong feelings and few words for them β€” tantrums are typical
  • Shows affection to familiar people
  • Begins to say 'no' and to want to do things alone

πŸ‘€ Worth asking a doctor about

  • Not walking by 18 months
  • Fewer than six words by 18 months
  • No two-word phrases by 24 months
  • Does not copy others or pretend by 24 months
  • Does not share interest by pointing or showing
  • Any loss of words or skills once gained

These are reasons to ask, not verdicts. Early help works; waiting rarely does.

🀝 What helps at this age

  • Expand what the child says: 'ball' β†’ 'yes, a big red ball'
  • Offer real choices between two things, to build words and will
  • Name feelings out loud: 'you are very cross that it stopped'
  • Allow long, uninterrupted, unstructured play

βš–οΈ Please read this part

πŸ›οΈ Which system is which?

Montessori, Reggio Emilia, Waldorf, HighScope and the rest β€” what each believes, how each assesses, and the fair criticisms of all of them.

Compare them β†’
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